My last column was about too much homework and what to do about it. I advised adolescents to form committees of students and parents to examine homework practices at their schools. I suggested they consult several recent books that argue that excessive homework does little good and a great deal of harm. I supported the […]
On Healing 11/13/2006: Teenagers drastically need more downtime
To all adolescents, You need more time. Ninety percent of the high school students I speak with say they are under great stress. Most of it is time-related, and much of that is a combination of too much homework and too little sleep. You need time to sleep (physicians say nine hours a night at […]
On Healing 10/30/2006: Discoveries in the pursuit of happiness
Opening a recent talk to seniors about maintaining intimate relationships as we age, I asked a question: Would they be satisfied if, at the end of the lecture, they knew how to be happy in a partnership? They all raised their hands. Then I asked whether they would be satisfied knowing how to be happy […]
On Healing 10/16/2006: Confront child abuse with open attitude
The ongoing story about former U.S. Rep. Mark Foley’s sexually explicit e-mails to congressional teenage pages prompted many queries from parents and the media. Most ask the questions I get in every crisis: “How can I explain this to my children?” “How can I protect my children from danger?” The answers are important, and easy […]
On Healing 10/2/2006: Wives feeling disappointed, men inadequate
Dear Dr. Dan: It seems to me there is one psychological challenge in family life that is crying out to be “named and framed” so those affected can get help: the challenge of living with the incompetent. By incompetence, I mean the inability to understand one’s inadequacies and to grasp the adaptations needed to live […]
On Healing 9/18/2006: How to parent an adult: Respectfully
Last month I wrote about a mother concerned about her 22-year-old daughter. She felt her daughter was struggling and she didn’t know how to help. I advised her that small children need parents who will manage the environment to keep them safe, whereas adolescents need our support and faith more than our management skills. I […]
On Healing 9/4/2006: Grateful for an infection? In a way, yes
I knew there was no cure for my paralysis. Nor was there any hope for my baldness. But this was an infectious-disease doctor on the other end of the line, and he was calling me about my urinary tract infection. We had always cured them in the past, and even though this one seemed much […]
On Healing 8/21/2006: A mother cannot, should not, protect a grown daughter
Dear Dr. Dan: My 22-year-old daughter is a senior at a nearby university. She is beautiful, smart and well-rounded. But she seems to be taking one step forward and two steps back. The people she befriends have had a negative effect on her. I am most concerned with her “boyfriends.” She gets into very short-lived […]
On Healing 8/7/2006: Shy bladder caused decades of shame
Dear Dr. Dan: Thanks for the opportunity to contact you in this anonymous medium, because it would be intolerable for me to face anyone with my curse. I have suffered from a misery with the technical name of parauresis, or shy bladder syndrome, since I was a child. I was traumatized as a little boy […]
On Healing 7/24/2006: Opening up to others could rout fear
These days the world seems a little more frightening than usual. Iraq feels dangerously out of control. North Korea is firing missiles, Iran is threatening to acquire nuclear weapons, and now Israel and Lebanon have turned into a powderkeg. Yes, I’m scared. Most of us, when we get together with friends, debate the pros and […]
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